Tag: Female Funeral Directors

  • Thriving As A Woman In a Male-Dominated Industry

    Thriving As A Woman In a Male-Dominated Industry

    Funeral service is no longer a male-dominated industry. In fact, across the country, females outnumber males in mortuary schools. It was not always like that. In our latest interview, we tell what it was like when we began our careers in funeral service, and how we chose to work in harmony with our male colleagues.

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  • What You Need To Know  When Considering a Home Funeral

    What You Need To Know When Considering a Home Funeral

    In 1911, when newspaper publisher and journalist Joseph Pulitzer died, he was waked in the library of his Manhattan home. The room was filled with floral tributes and the furniture arranged for the assembly of mourners. Throughout the morning, family, friends, and employees came to pay their respects to the journalistic icon who reposed in…

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  • DOA -RIP

    DOA -RIP

    Web and social media sites of young, and not so young, funeral directors hawk all sorts of merchandise. Some of it is educational, and the Morte Girls applaud that. But other items are silly or downright offensive.

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  • NYSFDA, Spare Us the TikTok eClips

    NYSFDA, Spare Us the TikTok eClips

    Lately, the weekly eClips, sent by the NYSFDA, have contained more and more links to embarrassing articles by so-called viral sensations on TiKTok. The most recent article, about a mortuary student who “has lifted the lid” (this expression is gag-inducing) about repairing “injuries on deceased people” with clay (which is not used in actual practice)…

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  • A Dying Business

    A Dying Business

    One upon a time, a young woman walked into a funeral home in Queens, New York. She needed an after-school job to earn some money, while she worked her way through college, and the funeral home was hiring. She had dreams of one day becoming a great writer. Well, if not a great one, at…

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  • I Want to Watch

    An essential component of our role as funeral directors is to maintain the sanctity of our work and protect the privacy of those in our care. Something that continues to trouble me is the prurient interest some have in the most private part of funeral service. “I want to watch. Can I?”  It is an…

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  • Five Things

    Five Things

    Five Things I’ve learned in my long career as a funeral director I was pleased to share my view of funeral service with Life. Death. Whatever., gleaned from the work I’ve done, the experiences of my colleagues, and the perspective of the thousands of families I’ve served over the years. Despite what you may read…

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  • Walking in Heels in Green-Wood: A Memorable Day with Doris in Brooklyn

    Walking in Heels in Green-Wood: A Memorable Day with Doris in Brooklyn

    While in Brooklyn to meet up with my Doris and attend the wake of an industry friend, we made an impromptu stop at Green-Wood. “You want to take a walk before we go to the wake?” she asked. “Sure, I have sneakers in my car!” I responded, always up for a walk in G-W. “You…

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