Choosing Meaningful Outfits for Funerals

“My mother’s signature color was emerald green. She said it both honored her Irish heritage and made her feel like royalty,” the daughter of the deceased told me a few days ago. At the arrangement conference, when she handed me a silk wrap dress –one of her mother’s favorites–in that color, I knew exactly what she meant.”

Before a funeral, there’s a sacred ritual: choosing the final outfit. It’s not just about fabric or fit—it’s about legacy. As a funeral director, I’ve seen families agonize over this choice, not because they want perfection, but because they want meaning.

Fashion is never frivolous. It’s a favorite sweater, or a pair of heels that once danced at a wedding. It’s dignity, personality, and love—wrapped in fabric.

As a person who loves fashion–both shopping for and blogging about it, I’ve spent years celebrating self-expression. When I started working as a funeral director, I realized that style can take on even greater meaning: it becomes a language of remembrance, helping families honor their loved ones through personal and meaningful choices. Beauty and style belong in every chapter of life—even the final one.

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